IN MEMORY: THOMAS J. “TOMMY” GARDELLA

40 years later, his impact is still felt across Rex and Cove.

This year marks both Rex Marine’s 90th anniversary and the 40 year remembrance of Thomas J. “Tommy” Gardella, longtime president and a steady force behind what Rex became. Tommy passed on April 14, 1986. Born in 1936, he would have also turned 90 this July.

The son of founder Lou Gardella, Tommy was the second youngest of five sons. After graduating from Norwalk High School and serving in the U.S. Navy, he went on to play a defining role in the growth and direction of the business.

Tommy showed up every day. Seven days a week. Even through a multi year battle with cancer, he never gave up and continued working right up until the end. His consistency was not for recognition. It was simply who he was. He carried a positive attitude no matter the circumstance and set a standard that still defines the culture at Rex Marine today.

That same approach carried into the community. Tommy served on numerous boards throughout the area, including local businesses and maritime organizations. One of his favorites was Long Island Sound America, which organized the Flight of the Balloons. Hot air balloons would lift off from Taylor Farm and make their way across the Sound to Long Island. It was the kind of event that fit Tommy well. He was a kid at heart.

More than titles, he was known for how he treated people. Tommy was always willing to help, whether that meant offering guidance, lending a hand, or giving someone a second chance when they needed it most.

At Rex, his leadership was hands on and personal. Longtime employee Mike Maver put it simply: “Friday is boat movin’ day with Tommy.” That routine says everything. Tommy showed up, worked alongside the crew, and was someone people could count on.

Tommy was not just building a business. He was building people, relationships, and a way of doing things that still carries through Rex Marine today.

He is survived by his wife, Connie Gardella, and his children, Tommy, Sharon, Sandra, and Diane.

As we celebrate 90 years of Rex Marine, we also recognize the individuals who shaped it. Tommy’s work ethic, generosity, and presence remain part of the foundation.

Tommy's impact did not end in 1986. It is still here.